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LJI9 - Week 2 - My Mind's Gap

This is my entry for this week of LJ Idol, Season 9. Please check out the entries of my fellow competitors and consider joining the therealljidol community. This week's topic was "The Missing Stair."



Floating Stairs
A red-carpeted staircase floating in a starry sky



"What's wrong with your hand?" he asks in his 3-year-old lilt, his tone one of concern mixed with curiosity.

I stretch my dry fingers out, dotted with shiny spots where I've painted the multiple cuts and tears with the medical-grade super-glue that's marketed as liquid bandage. As I age, my skin loses its resilience. This extended weather has turned my right hand into bleeding tissue paper.

Shrugging, I tell him, "My skin gets dry and the skin cracks. I put some liquid bandage on it, which makes it shiny." I don't mention the part about aging, don't tell him how I worry about the myriad ways my body may begin to fail me. Then, as he gently grabs my hand to examine it closer, I weakly add, "It's OK."


The familiar wending and winding. Up, ever up. And soon -- always -- my way becomes fractured with the threat of falling. The stairway, whipping back on itself in sick turns, drops out from underneath. I face a precipitous gap, venture onward anyway. Always.


In the midst of playing, he freezes suddenly, his body rigid. "I think I have to pee," he says, his voice a cross of wonder and desperation.

I usher him over to the little plastic toddler potty, but he wants to go to the "big-boy potty" upstairs. Carrying him up the steps, I make a siren noise: "Wee-oh, wee-oh, pee emergency! Make way for the pee emergency!" He giggles.

We have just enough time to place the step stool and pull down his pants before he sits and sighs in relief. We made it! I cheer for him afterward, give him a high five and reward him with a sticker for his sticker chart. I don't tell him how I worry if he'll be able to make it through the half-day in preschool tomorrow, his first day moving up to the older class, where underwear is required.


Sometimes the stairs are sunk in darkness, a starry sky outside a tower of gold-flecked stone. Other people may begin the journey with me, but I always wind up alone, pondering how to bridge that terrifying gap, to continue my climb. The way up, though challenging, is too important to turn back. I never look down. I never stop. But still, I am afraid.



Much as I love him, he is driving me crazy. I am blogging at the author and book sites I've been neglecting, promoting the video contest that, if I won the audience prize, could fund his preschool tuition for the rest of the year. Curled up next to my left arm, declaring himself a "hamster baby," he plays a color game on his LeapPad, which was a Christmas gift from his grandfather. The scene, from a step away, is cozy: two dark-blonde figures with the same nose, the same chin, one 40 years younger and a third the size of the other, both intent on their "work." From my perspective, though, it feels cramped, as he kicks me absent-mindedly with his perpetually moving foot.

I ask him to please slide over a bit, knowing that even if he moves, he will soon be mashed up against me again. "You're just a cuddle bear today," I tell him. I don't tell him there are times I just want to push him away, and times when I can't bear to imagine a future with him as a teenager who no longer wants to hug, or a grown man who's moved across the country.


This time, it is different. My son -- who sails unbidden into my lotus lands these days -- accompanies me. He bounces along, unmindful of the danger. I scoop him up and ford the gap with newfound bravery. Courage burns into my limbs. I will not fall. I cannot fall, for he needs me.




ETA: KFP's home-game entry is now up, The Crab Thief. It's short and fun, so check it out. Just don't go in the closet!






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mothermelete
Mar. 24th, 2014 05:27 am (UTC)
"I cannot fall, for he needs me."
This... I have to keep going no matter what, because they need me to. Love this piece!
alycewilson
Mar. 24th, 2014 06:38 am (UTC)
Thank you so much! I really did have that interesting variation on my recurring dream lately, which amazed me. We do need to stay strong for them, even when we doubt ourselves.
jexia
Mar. 24th, 2014 08:20 am (UTC)
You know I relate to this!
alycewilson
Mar. 25th, 2014 06:27 pm (UTC)
I figured it would. One of life's necessities that you overlook once you learn it, never contemplating how difficult it is to learn!
swirlsofblue
Mar. 24th, 2014 09:24 am (UTC)
I love how these sections are interwoven, the metaphors are beautifully written and I love how it all comes together.
alycewilson
Mar. 25th, 2014 09:39 pm (UTC)
Thank you. I thought doing it as vignettes would better show what I was trying to discuss than to simply summarize.
x_disturbed_x
Mar. 24th, 2014 11:14 am (UTC)
I like how you blended everything together in this. :) It was very bittersweet.
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 01:47 am (UTC)
Thank you. Bittersweet is a great word for what I was hoping to achieve.
i_will_not_say
Mar. 24th, 2014 12:00 pm (UTC)
You did a good job blending the different sections together. :)
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 01:47 am (UTC)
Thank you! I was hoping the vignettes would work together.
millysdaughter
Mar. 24th, 2014 01:09 pm (UTC)
He bounces along, unmindful of the danger.
I am sandwiched between not-so-young adult children and elderly parental units, driving myself into a frenzy because I see the dangers and they either do not see or choose to ignore the oncoming dangers!
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 01:46 am (UTC)
And it's hard not to start to see them everywhere, right? This afternoon, he wanted to pick our table while I was paying for our coffee. Next thing I know, he's running up to me with a woman following, who wanted to apologize for talking to him, because apparently it freaked him out. First of all, way to go, KFP! Secondly, this is why I make him hold my hand EVERYWHERE when we're out.

EDIT: I had coffee, he had milk. :)

Edited at 2014-03-26 01:46 am (UTC)
beautyofgrey
Mar. 25th, 2014 02:44 am (UTC)
This is full of sweetness, and captures so well that feeling of worry that just seems too underlie all of parenting. As someone with a 15 year old who still gives (great) hugs, I will tell you, they will surprise you - there will be days they will pick you up and carry you across that gap.
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 01:18 am (UTC)
You have such a way with words. I love that idea! He is a sweet little guy, so I could see that happening. It's good that your 15-year-old still hugs you.
basric
Mar. 25th, 2014 04:07 am (UTC)
A lovely touching entry, well done.
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 01:17 am (UTC)
Thank you so much! I'm glad I could touch even the Grim Reaper's soul. :) Really, that icon is stunning.
crazed_delusion
Mar. 25th, 2014 04:48 am (UTC)
Beautifully written. Both heartwarming and heartbreaking.
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 01:17 am (UTC)
Thank you! That balance was something I hoped I could achieve without tipping over into sentimentality.
halfshellvenus
Mar. 25th, 2014 05:04 am (UTC)
The "hamster baby" thing is beyond adorable. :)

From my perspective, though, it feels cramped, as he kicks me absent-mindedly with his perpetually moving foot.
I so remember those times, and searching for the patience not to be annoyed or feel pressured to be doing something else-- because that cuddly clinginess is gone all too soon, and you know you will miss it. So bittersweet.
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 01:16 am (UTC)
The hamster thing started after he watched an episode of "Kipper the Dog" where he was playing with a hamster. I think he wanted to declare his own nickname, because I call him everything from monkey to bunny to bear to, yes, even Spanky.

Patience is one of my lifelong challenges, I think. Perhaps I was sent KFP to work on it more.
eternal_ot
Mar. 25th, 2014 11:56 am (UTC)
Awww..this is so sweet... i loved the play of words...the inner demons and eventually you conquering them!...kudos!
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 12:22 am (UTC)
Thank you! I love playing with words and multiple meanings; glad you found that interesting. Recurring dreams have been a great way for me to work out issues over time. It's fun to see how my dreamworld has progressed from just a few years ago.
kehlen_crow
Mar. 25th, 2014 12:08 pm (UTC)
I like this very much.
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 12:21 am (UTC)
Thank you! Glad to hear it.
adoptedwriter
Mar. 25th, 2014 12:49 pm (UTC)
This is so sweet. I miss the days when my girls were little and cuddly, but they can still be lovey enough. I'm lucky that the older one only lives 50 miles away. We can make holidays, etc. AW
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 12:20 am (UTC)
You're lucky! I'm hoping he'll stick close enough for visits. He's a very social little guy right now, so hopefully that won't change.
lawchicky
Mar. 25th, 2014 05:00 pm (UTC)
As someone who works from home a good portion of the time, I totally get this. Owen starts preschool in September, and I am both looking forward to it and dreading it.
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 12:19 am (UTC)
Good luck to Owen! KFP did very well the first two days in the older class, and we just got a very long note from the teacher telling us how well-behaved and smart he is. :)
witches
Mar. 25th, 2014 06:07 pm (UTC)
Aww I loved this :D
alycewilson
Mar. 26th, 2014 12:18 am (UTC)
Thank you! I'm glad.
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